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So what is it when you keep dreaming about someone you are no longer with. It has been over a year and I still dream about this man. We have conversations in my dreams. Does anyone believe that we connect on a spiritual level when dreaming. It confuses me and drains me emotionally when I dream of him. It makes me happy to dream of him but depressed because he is not in my life, but he does not seem to leave my dreams. | |
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Site Owner Posts: 40 |
Hi Kat, just in answer to your query regarding your dreams. We absolutely do connect with other souls (both on the earthplane and on the 'other side') during our dreams. This is what astral travel is about. Often when we dream of someone who is no longer in our lives it indicates unresolved issues either within the relationship or within you. Things may not be as 'over' on a spiritual/soul level as what they are on a physical/human level. These dreams may go on a little longer yet as there is still 'stuff' to work out - but once they stop you will feel a sense of resolution and/or lightness within, and you'll be able to move on once and for all.
I hope I've helped Kat ...
Love and Light
Joanne | |
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I just don't know what there is to work out. I still love him to this day and know that that part will never go away. I do believe we communicate in the spirit. I don't know how they will get worked out, but I guess they will. It seems like it has been a long time for me and nothing changes in my life. I still even think of him on a daily basis. My life has not stopped but it does not seem to move forward. I am still waiting to figure out what lesson I was supposed to learn because it still does not make sense to me. I have many unresolved issue within myself because of what happened, that do not seem to lessen. I konw one day I will figure it out. I just hope it is sooner rather than later because it is taking a toll on me and there is part of me that feels like I just don't belong in this life anymore and another part of me that just doesn't care anymore. Thanks for the input Joanne. | |
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Hi Kat, I Hope you are feeling better! Firstly I'd like to say I think Joanne's advice as always is very wise and informative. It is not my intention to offend you but I think you have answered the question yourself because the fact that you still love this man is in effect an unresolved issue. But really my suggestion is very simple and that is to ask the spirit realm (angels, your spirit guide etc.) for assistance with this issue either through the day or before you go to sleep at night so that then can communicate their response to you through your dreams. Once you have done this be alert, patient and have faith for I believe the answer/s will ALWAYS be given! In the meantime what works for me when I feel a little down is too 'reconnect' with Mother nature and spend more time outdoors bare foot on the grass or near the ocean etc. and I spend more time pampering myself. As I am sure you know we are more receptive to 'spirit' when we feel "balanced" and have a sense of belonging. I hoped I have helped too Kat and I hope I have not been too "preachy" lol Best wishes Jen | |
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Site Owner Posts: 40 |
I like to re-connect with Nature when I am feeling out of whack aswell ... that's why I've chosen to live in a rural/bush setting. It really does work!
Thanks Jen, for your insight and input. Love, light and blessings to you always.
Joanne | |
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Jen, No you have not been preachy Thank you for the info. I really try to get out into nature. I live by the beach and love to go down there. You are right I still love this man and it is still for me unresolved. I am still working through it and nothing seems to change for me in that department. I have asked for guidance and I guess I just can't seem to understand what my guides want to tell me. At this time it is patience as I can't seem to meet anyone else in my life. Also I am going through alot with my job and also have surgeries coming up. Not big surgery but arthroscopic but still surgery. Even though I have good family, I am still feeling lonely and empty inside. I am grateful for all I am blessed with but there is still this empitiness that I can't figure out. You are right though, when I am out in nature I feel so at home. I am going to try during my recouperative time to go outside more often. Thanks Jen and Joanne for you help and comments.
Kat | |
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Hi me again Kat, That's so great you live near the water you lucky girl. I live in the hinterland although it is surburbia we have some gorgeous birds - parrots, rosella's, lorikeets etc that we enjoy viewing and feeding. When you say you are having trouble understanding what your guides are telling you I am just wondering if you have tried a variety of different methods of divination such as Tarot/ Angel Cards, dowsing, crystals, runes etc? Best of luck with your surgery and your journey Kat I am sure you will figure it all out in time, and as they say "we are not given anything we can not handle!" Take care Love and Light Jen | |
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Ahhh that must be nice. I love birds. have some feeders in the back yard and some feeders for the hummingbirds. i love the ocean. walk the dogs down by there too when i can.
i have tried cards a few different times and really tried. i have a nice deck but they just don't work for me. i can't feel them although i have pulled some and understood. i use runes and i really like them, i connect with them. all the questions i ask about this man are that he means something deep, something more than just someone in my life. i can't seem to find another relationship. it is not like i haven't looked. i meet guys, but it just doesn't happen and it has been over a year. i refuse to do anything online as i don't like the way it makes me feel. i believe god/gods will put someone together. i just don't know jen, i feel for him and have dreamt of him still to this day, and think of him every day. even sometimes the stupidest things remind me of him. i feel like i don't understand what i am supposed to do. i feel so lonely. i have learned the value family and friends, i have been open and have tried to be positive and everything to bring things into my life, but nothing. i am feeling beat up by life. my job, i hate, well i dislike alot. that i am working on changing and am willing to put in the work. so i just keep praying and asking god and the angels to help me through this. i hope this period in my life will not be too much longer. i feel sooooo tired and am feeling so empty inside.
i always remember that "that which does not kill you makes you stronger"
thanks for the thoughts.
kat | |
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I imagine it must be tough Kat ... keep trying to be positive and open hopefully this 'phase' of your life will soon be over so that you can then open yourself up to some new and wonderful opportunities! That's great you have a connection with runes maybe in time you will get more answers there. Have you thought about having a reading with Joanne or some energy healing? Thank you for trusting me enough to share. Sending you lots of radiant energy Jen | |
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i have had readings from other people and none have been right about him or about meeting someone else, so i don't know. this is what confuses me. i have looked around and had people read for me and angel card readings and all such, but they can see me in a new job and those kind of things but no one has ever so far gotten my relationship right. i did have a few say he was wrong for me and best to leave him, guess they were right in a way as we are not together, but doesn't explain the way i feel. i am going through finacial difficulties now as i have this surgery and just bills in general to pay and with all the things i have had told it is hard to believe anything. sometimes i just feel like i wish it was all over and that my life's purpose had been served, but guess not cause i am still here. thank you so much for the positive thoughts and ideas. i will make it through somehow as i always do. there is a reason for everything just wish god would hurry up with this one as it is overdue.
hugs and angels, kat | |
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Your welcome Kat... hope I have helped in some way! Take care | |
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Hi Kat I have been following your story and wondered if you have considered that one of your soul purposes is to learn to move on from such strong emotions, maybe you have chosen a life where you want to feel great love, loose it and still make a wonderfull life for your self. Sometimes we are what hold ourselves back, even on an unconcious level. I feel you already have all the answers you need sit quietly with pen and paper, ask Arch Angel Michael for some guidance and direction and see what happens. If you are brave enough to share your thoughts then I know you are brave enough to take the plunge on creating a wonderfull life for yourself. Keep smiling Kerry | |
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"If you are brave enough to share your thoughts then I know you are brave enough to take the plunge on creating a wonderfull life for yourself."
That's an excellent point you've made there Kerry .. I agree with you totally !!
Joanne | |
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Thanks Kerry. I have had great love and lost it. I am working on making something of this life still. I keep on keeping on. I have tried to listen for guidance and all I get is "wait". I am working on changing jobs, hopefully moving into something that will finally work for me. I realize some of the friends I have made in life are great people and will always be good to me. I am having my hip surgery to improve my health and help me in life. So I am working towards something but sometimes it feels as if I am running in place or sliding backwards. I have stayed positive but am not afraid to feel my emotions. I am tired of how this world hides behind its drugs and that everybody has to be happy all the time. I want to feel. I have felt and I still do. Right now love is still pain. Oh well. It has been over a year and I have found no companionship. Some say if you are looking it won't happen. Well I haven't really been looking. I have been asking but it doesn't happen. Some say you have to have your heart open. Well this man will always be in my heart so if I am waiting for that then I guess I will never find someone. It doesn't matter anymore to me. I have just come to accept every day. I am okay with alone, even though I live with my family, so I am never really alone. There is something to be said about a male/female relation. Maybe it will happen for me. It took two years before I found the man that has my heart so maybe it will be another two years. Oh well, like I said, don't really care anymore. Got alot of things to do right now. I am trying not to figure out anything anymore. Life will work out somehow, even if I am alone. Such is life, like the french say. Thanks for the words Kerry. | |
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